1. Love them. Period. Plain and simple.
2. Except for when it’s complicated.
3. Love them through their stupid mistakes.
4. But not if they keep making them.
5. That’s a decision.
6. A conscious incision into highly sensitive heart space.
7. It is not fair and you are better.
8. Insist upon your worth in action and pocket value.
9. You keep on clearance rackin’ your sanity and now you can’t afford the operating costs.
10. Your psyche is free to the highest bidder.
11. Perfect peace passed like communion to the lies of pious n***as.
12. Please, add tax.
13. Scan all this. It can’t be copied. That’s fax.
14. Hard conversations clear your mind like sativa.
15. Saying how they hurt you wins you no fans but my God, the way it frees you.
16. Insist upon not laying awake wondering how the vocal sleep.
17. Never be ashamed about playing for keeps.
18. Comfort is key. Heels are cute but I am sexiest when not twisting an ankle.
19. Get healthy. But don’t attach pants sizes to your worth because you were always the prize.
20. Worry most about facing the truth in your own eyes. People’s acceptance is a fickle thing.
21. Don’t be a slave to fear like she is. Green hair and nose rings are little things that mean you went for it.
22. Love the ones that loved you first.
23. In Yoruba, they say that a river flows far but never forgets its source.
24. Never regret it. Replace “it” with that decision you sweated.
25. Never abandon a goal ‘til you get it.
26. When the chacha slide asks how low can you go, go low.
27. You won’t always be this flexible.
28. Purdue professions that stretch you. You will perish when you become complacent.
29. You can never relinquish holy once you’ve had the chance to taste it.
30. was good to you. Bad to you. Highs and lows, a taste of what’s to come.
You are pure magic, baby. Here’s to 31.